Instead of seeing “being lost” as a failing, consider it the universe guiding you toward self-discovery.

Life’s intricate journey often leads us astray, pulling us away from our true selves. This disorientation, however, presents a unique opportunity for profound introspection and rediscovery. It is in these very moments of uncertainty, when the familiar paths dissolve and the future seems veiled, that we are compelled to delve beyond the superficial identities we often construct for ourselves. 

This deep exploration allows us to unearth and reconnect with our core essence—the authentic self that lies beneath layers of societal expectations, past experiences, and learned behaviors.

Such periods of feeling lost are not deviations from the journey, but rather integral stages designed to prompt a necessary turning inward. They invite us to question our assumptions, to examine our values, and to discern what truly resonates with our spirit. Without these moments of existential questioning, we might continue to operate on autopilot, fulfilling roles and pursuing goals that do not genuinely align with our deepest aspirations. The discomfort of being adrift serves as a powerful catalyst, urging us to consciously choose a path that is more aligned with our inner truth, leading to a life lived with greater purpose, authenticity, and fulfillment.

Instead of viewing this “lost” feeling as a weakness, consider it the universe’s gentle push towards self-discovery. Much like a caterpillar transforms within its chrysalis, shedding its old form to embrace newfound freedom, losing one version of ourselves is often a necessary step to finding a truer one. 

This inward journey allows us to shed accumulated facades and reconnect with our innate passions, beliefs, and capabilities.

To begin this path of self-reflection, find a quiet moment, even if only for five minutes. Close your eyes and take a few deep breaths. Then, consider these questions: 

• What genuinely excites me and brings me joy and energy? 
• What values are most important to me right NOW and should guide my decisions?
• If I could design my ideal day, what would it look like?

Allow your imagination to soar without judgment, simply observing the thoughts that arise. There are no right or wrong answers. This simple act of introspection can be a powerful first step in rekindling your purpose and direction.

Peace & Harmony, Coach Cher