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If you do not stand with “We the People” in reclaiming our nation, then this message is not for you.

There will be no debate, no judgment, no animosity, no justifications, no supplication, and no submission.

My father, along with other family and friends, bravely served and protected this country without hesitation, defending us all.

If defending our nation—not just for myself, but for my nieces, nephews, and future generations—is the cause I ultimately stand for, then so be it.

I want to bring back Peace & Harmony to our country.

Coach Cher ~

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“Yesterday is but a dream, tomorrow but a vision. We can’t change the direction of the wind, but we can adjust the sails.” ~ Indian Proverb

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What is a Vision Board?

Vision Boards as an Art Therapy Tool

Art therapy is a creative method of expression used as a therapeutic technique. Among the various tools utilized in art therapy, vision boards stand out as a particularly powerful medium. A vision board is a collage of images, pictures, and affirmations of one’s dreams, goals, and desires. By engaging in the process of creating a vision board, individuals can unlock a range of psychological benefits, making it a valuable tool in art therapy.

 What is a Vision Board?

A vision board, also known as a dream board, is a visual representation of one’s aspirations and goals. It typically involves cutting out pictures and words from magazines or printing images that resonate with one’s desires and pasting them onto a board. The finished product serves as a visual reminder and motivation for achieving these goals.

The Therapeutic Process

The process of creating a vision board can be therapeutic in itself. Here’s how it helps:

1. Self-Reflection and Awareness: Selecting images and words for a vision board requires introspection. Individuals must think deeply about what they truly want in life. This reflection fosters self-awareness and helps in identifying personal values and priorities.

2. Goal Setting and Focus: Vision boards help clarify and concentrate one’s goals. By visually depicting their aspirations, individuals can focus more clearly on what they want to achieve. This focus can reduce anxiety and provide a sense of direction.

3. Emotional Expression: Art therapy often aims to help individuals express emotions that are difficult to verbalize. Through the selection of images and colors, individuals can convey feelings and thoughts, facilitating emotional release and understanding.

4. Stress Reduction: The act of creating art is inherently relaxing. The tactile experience of cutting, pasting, and arranging images can reduce stress and promote a sense of calm. Engaging in a creative activity can serve as a form of mindfulness, helping individuals stay present and engaged.

5. Empowerment and Motivation: Seeing one’s goals and dreams laid out visually can be incredibly empowering. Vision boards act as a constant reminder of one’s potential and the steps needed to achieve desired outcomes. This visual reinforcement can boost motivation and encourage positive thinking.

6. Symbolic Thinking: Vision boards can help individuals think in symbols and metaphors, which can be a powerful way to process and understand complex emotions and situations. This symbolic thinking can lead to new insights and perspectives.

Applications in Art Therapy

Vision boards can be integrated into various therapeutic settings, from individual therapy sessions to group workshops. Here are some ways they can be used:

– Individual Therapy: Therapists can guide clients through the process of creating a vision board, helping them explore personal goals and emotions. This can be particularly useful for clients dealing with issues like depression, anxiety, and low self-esteem.

– Group Therapy: In group settings, creating vision boards can foster a sense of community and shared purpose. Participants can share their boards and discuss their aspirations, leading to mutual support and understanding.

– Workshops and Retreats: Vision board workshops can be part of wellness retreats or personal development rituals. These sessions can provide a structured environment for individuals to focus on their goals and well-being.

Conclusion

Vision boards are more than just a creative exercise; they are a powerful tool in art therapy. By facilitating self-reflection, goal setting, emotional expression, and stress reduction, vision boards can help individuals navigate their inner world and work towards their dreams. Whether used in individual therapy, group sessions, or personal development, vision boards offer a versatile and effective means of fostering mental and emotional well-being.

Peace & Harmony, Cheryl

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Let’s Support Young Adults . . . Not Oppose Them!

THE SUPPORT OF YOUNG ADULTS

Supporting Anxious Young Adults Facing Their Futures: A Call to Action for Skilled Adults

Growing up in the 1970s, our futures were certainly a concern. However, there was a prevailing belief among skilled and experienced adults, when they weren’t focused on sending us to war, that our lives would surpass those of our parents and grandparents. A key difference between then and now lies in the respect afforded to young adults. Back then, adults voiced concerns like “cut your hair,” “put a bra on,” and “stop smoking those funny cigarettes.” These specific issues no longer seem to be a focus for adults today. One wonders if they should be.

Recent studies show that nearly 70% of young adults experience anxiety when they look ahead to their future, from career paths and financial independence to relationships, health, and identity. This isn’t simply a “phase.” It’s a widespread and pressing emotional burden. As skilled and experienced adults, we are in a powerful position to support, guide, and inspire the next generation—if we choose to show up intentionally and compassionately.

1. Normalize Uncertainty, Don’t Glorify Control

Many young people believe that by their mid-20s, they should have it all figured out. We can help by sharing our own stories—honestly. Talk about the career pivots, unexpected life detours, and personal reinventions that shaped you. Let them see that uncertainty isn’t failure; it’s part of becoming.

“I didn’t land on my career until I was 35.”

“The job I loved at 22 wasn’t the one I loved at 42.”

When we normalize nonlinear journeys, we relieve them from the false pressure to get it perfect right now.


2. Offer Mentorship, Not Management

Many young adults fear judgment when they ask for advice. They’re used to being evaluated on tests, in college applications, and on social media. Instead of prescribing solutions, offer coaching. Be a mentor who asks, “What do you love doing?” or “What kind of life would you like to wake up to?”

Offer frameworks, not fixed answers. Ask questions that foster internal reflection, not external validation.


3. Model Emotional Regulation and Coping Strategies

Anxiety around the future is not always logical—it’s emotional. So, rather than offering only “solutions,” show them how to manage the feeling of anxiety. Share what works for you: mindfulness, journaling, breaking big goals into small actions, or simply knowing when to rest.

When adults model emotional literacy, young people learn that being overwhelmed doesn’t mean they’re broken—it means they’re human.


4. Create Brave (Not Just Safe) Spaces

Safe spaces are important, but brave spaces are transformational. Be someone they can talk to without fear of ridicule. Let them explore their doubts, fears, and dreams—even if those dreams seem wild or uncertain.

Start conversations like:

  • “What’s something you want to do but haven’t said out loud yet?”
  • “If fear weren’t in the way, what would you try?”

5. Provide Tangible Tools, Not Just Talks

Sometimes anxiety is fueled by not knowing how to move forward. Offer real-world tools:

  • Resume-building help
  • Budgeting workshops
  • Skill-building internships or shadowing opportunities
  • Guidance on navigating healthcare, housing, or credit

Equipping them with real skills reduces fear and builds confidence.


6. Challenge the Myth of “Success”

Help dismantle the harmful narrative that success must look a certain way—high-paying job, house by 30, picture-perfect life. Emphasize fulfillment, not just achievement.

Success can be:

  • Doing meaningful work
  • Being mentally and physically well
  • Having healthy relationships
  • Living with integrity

Let’s help young people define success on their terms.


7. Walk With, Not Ahead

At the core of all help is this truth: young adults don’t need saviors. They need companions—adults who will walk with them, not ahead of them, shining a light back with encouragement, wisdom, and hope.

“You’re not behind. You’re on your way.”


In Summary:
As skilled, emotionally aware adults, we can help young adults navigate future-focused anxiety not by fixing their fears, but by faithfully walking with them through it. Listening deeply. Sharing honestly. Encouraging gently. Equipping tangibly.

And above all, reminding them: the future isn’t something to fear—it’s something to co-create.

Peace & Harmony, Coach Cher

For more in-depth support beyond this article, explore my personalized coaching programs. Schedule a free consultation to discuss what’s preventing you from achieving organized living spaces. We’ll pinpoint your obstacles and create a customized plan to reach your goals.

I look forward to helping you transform your lifestyle.

Let’s Chat! Cheryl Camacho # 860-941-8630

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