The meaning behind your characters’ actions is entirely up to you, regardless of who they are or what they’ve done.

We all have a unique life story, shaped by relationships and events that influence our identity and beliefs. Our experiences can either lead to negativity and victimization or empower us towards self-development, depending on our perspective and willingness to grow. 

The story we tell ourselves about our experiences makes all the difference.

Reflect on your own life story. If you feel peaceful about the past and trust in your ability to handle future challenges, you are framing your circumstances in a way that benefits you. Conversely, if you harbor guilt or resentment and often feel burdened by life, consider creating a new narrative for past and present events. 

Regardless of the individuals involved in your life and their actions, you have the power to assign meaning to those actions and define your role in your own life. By taking responsibility for your story, you can learn, grow, forgive, find compassion, and move towards a brighter future.

I’m currently writing a story about my mother and how she used humor to teach me life lessons, refusing to let me be the wallflower I so desperately wanted to be.  I want to share her story, and the story of our navy friends who became family and more, with the world.

From this point forward, choose a life story that supports you. 

Let it be a testament to your resilience and creativity. Be kind to yourself and allow yourself ample opportunities to learn. Remember, as the author of your own story, you have the freedom to create a masterpiece.

Happy writing ♥ Cheryl