Posted in Intentional lifestyle

The Beauty of Sustainable Lifestyle

CHAPTER ONE: Less is a Mess Until It’s Bliss

Simple living is more than decluttering a closet or downsizing a home—it’s a mindset that encourages us to slow down and live with intention. At its core, it’s about removing excess not only from our physical spaces but also from our mental, emotional, and spiritual lives. In doing so, we create space for clarity, peace, and deeper meaning.

Rather than measuring life by what we accumulate, simple living invites us to value the quality of our experiences, relationships, and inner growth. In a world dominated by consumerism and constant noise, it’s easy to confuse busyness with purpose. Simple living challenges this mindset, prompting us to reassess what truly matters. It suggests that a life overloaded with possessions, obligations, and endless striving can often feel empty rather than fulfilling.

By intentionally choosing simplicity, we begin to notice the richness in small moments: the warmth of a morning cup of tea, the beauty of nature outside our window, or the joy of an unhurried conversation with a friend. These are the often-overlooked treasures buried beneath the clutter of modern life.

At its foundation, simple living is not about deprivation. It’s not about giving up what we love, but aligning our lives with what we value most. It begins with asking: Do I need this? Does this serve me? Does this contribute to my well-being or distract from it? These questions help us intentionally curate lives that support balance and harmony.

Simplicity empowers us to focus our time, energy, and resources on what nurtures us rather than what depletes us. Ultimately, it offers freedom—freedom from the pressure to constantly consume, from the weight of comparison, and from the illusion that more is always better.

This philosophy opens a door to a slower, more mindful way of being—one in which we reconnect with our authentic selves. In this space, we are no longer defined by what we own or how much we do, but by who we are and how we choose to live. This chapter lays the groundwork for embracing simplicity—not as a fleeting trend, but as a fulfilling way of life rooted in depth, peace, and joy.

CHAPTER TWO: Your Stuff is Not Your Soulmate (Probably)

Let’s be honest: some of us are in committed relationships with our stuff. That T-shirt from 2008? “It still fits… emotionally.” The pasta maker you used once? “It might come in handy during the next carb crisis.”

But here’s the kicker—most of our stuff doesn’t love us back. It doesn’t bring joy; it just hogs our space and collects dust like it’s starting a collection.

The key to sustainable living is understanding the difference between wanting and needing. (Spoiler: You probably don’t need that third garlic press.) When we stop accumulating things like we’re trying to win a loyalty card from Amazon, we reduce waste, save money, and free up mental space.

Try this: The next time you’re about to buy something, pause and ask, “Do I need this, or am I just trying to impress the neighbor who owns a salt lamp and a Tesla?” If it’s the latter, walk away proudly. You just saved yourself from clutter and existential regret.

Living sustainably doesn’t mean you must fit all your belongings into a backpack and move to a treehouse (unless you’re into that). It means being intentional: choosing quality over quantity, and making space for what actually matters—like spontaneous dance parties in your living room.


CHAPTER THREE: Eating Green Without Turning Into a Kale Cultist

You’ve probably heard the phrase “You are what you eat.” If that’s true, some of us are approximately 47% potato chips.

Sustainable living starts at the table. But let’s clear this up: You don’t need to become a vegan monk who only eats locally-sourced moss. The goal isn’t perfection—it’s progress.

Eating more plant-based meals, reducing food waste, and shopping locally can make a huge impact. Plus, eating veggies doesn’t have to be a flavorless punishment. (We’re looking at you, overcooked Brussels sprouts.)

Hot tip: Plan your meals before shopping. That way, you avoid buying 6 zucchinis you swear you’ll use but inevitably watch wilt into mushy regret.

And remember: composting isn’t just for hippies with backyard chickens. It’s a legit way to give back to the Earth—and it’s strangely satisfying to turn yesterday’s banana peel into tomorrow’s garden gold.

Start small. Swap out meat once or twice a week. Buy from the farmer’s market when you can. And yes, you can still have chocolate—it’s basically a plant. Probably.


CHAPTER FOUR: Energy Vampires and the Art of Unplugging (Literally and Figuratively)

No, we’re not talking about your overly dramatic cousin who drains your soul at family dinners. We’re talking about the other kind of energy vampire—the toaster that’s always plugged in even though it hasn’t toasted anything since 2017.

Our homes are full of sneaky energy suckers. Electronics, lights, heating systems—they’re often running on autopilot while we pay the bill. Sustainable living means becoming a little more aware of what’s on, what’s needed, and what can be turned off (hint: probably everything when you’re not using it).

But let’s zoom out for a second: unplugging isn’t just about appliances. It’s also about our minds. Scrolling social media until our eyeballs hurt doesn’t exactly scream “simple, meaningful life.” Try stepping away from screens once in a while. Go outside. Stare at a tree. Hug it, if you must.

Simple wins:

  • Switch to LED bulbs (they last longer and don’t affect your electric bill).
  • Use a power strip so you can turn off multiple devices with one satisfying click.
  • Air-dry your clothes like it’s 1992. Bonus: it’s free and smells like sunshine.

Remember, saving energy = saving money + saving the planet + becoming slightly smug in a good way.


CHAPTER FIVE: The Joy of Doing Nothing (a.k.a. Sustainable Sanity)

Here’s a radical idea: What if… You didn’t have to be busy all the time?

We live in a world that treats rest like a guilty pleasure. If you’re not multitasking with three to-do lists and a podcast playing at double speed, are you even trying?

Yes. Yes, you are. In fact, doing less can be the most revolutionary act in a world obsessed with more.

Sustainable living isn’t just about what we consume—it’s about how we live. Creating time for rest, reflection, and joy is just as important as composting or riding your bike to the store. Taking care of your well-being helps you show up better for the people and planet around you.

Pro tip: Schedule downtime like you’d schedule a dentist appointment. Call it “soul maintenance” if that makes it feel more official.

Sit. Breathe. Stare out the window. Let your mind wander without needing to fix, scroll, or hustle. You are not a productivity machine. You’re a human being—with permission to chill.

Because in the end, sustainability isn’t about sacrificing joy. It’s about making space for more of it—the real kind, not the kind that comes from flash sales and fast shipping.


Final Thoughts:
Living sustainably isn’t about being perfect. It’s about small steps, conscious choices, and a willingness to laugh along the way. Whether you’re swapping plastic for reusable bags or simply learning to appreciate silence over screen time, you’re making a difference.

And if all else fails—just remember to bring the clothes in if it starts to rain.

Posted in Intentional lifestyle

Life Shifts . . .

When Life Changes, I Help You Find Clarity.

Life shifts — sometimes slowly, sometimes all at once.
Maybe you’re preparing to sell your home and need every room to shine with simplicity and warmth.
Or maybe you’re opening your doors to a loved one — merging two lives, two styles, and two histories under one roof.

No matter the reason, your home tells a story — and I’m here to help you write the next chapter.

As a Home & Office Organizer, I create calm out of chaos, beauty out of overwhelm, and flow out of frustration.
I understand how hard it can be to let go, to start over, or to make space for someone new.
But you don’t have to do it alone.

Together, we’ll clear what no longer serves you, redesign spaces that reflect your new season of life, and bring a sense of peace and purpose back into your home.

Whether it’s:

  • Preparing your home to sell quickly and beautifully
  • Creating harmony while sharing your home with family
  • Or simply finding joy and order again in your daily spaces

I’m here to help you breathe easier — one room, one drawer, one conversation at a time.

Let’s talk about where you are and what you need.
📞 Call, text, or email me today — your new beginning is waiting.

860-941-8630 / organizercoach98@gmail.com / www.lifestylebydesignsblog.com 

Posted in Loving Yourself

Go Get It!

You can experience all the joy and passion you imagine right now, rather than waiting for a future moment.

Our time is finite and quickly consumed, making its utilization one of life’s most crucial decisions. Yet, we often postpone today’s dreams until tomorrow. Modern life’s demands offer an easy excuse: we sideline our aspirations to better manage present challenges, hoping for more time and leisure in the future to achieve our goals. Alternatively, we tell ourselves we’ll pursue our dreams after achieving lesser objectives.

In reality, fear prevents us from seeking fulfillment now. Because we see failure as a possibility, our reasons for delaying inevitable success seem logical. But if we honestly ask ourselves what we’re waiting for, we find no truly compelling reason to postpone the pursuit of our sustaining dreams.

Framed as a question, “Why not now?” drains our power to achieve ambitions. We’re so convinced we’re undeserving of happiness that we fail to see what we can do in the present to embrace it. When we decisively confront our existence and declare, “Why not now, indeed!” — we gain the power to begin transforming our lives instantly.

All the joy, passion, and contentment you envision can be yours immediately, not at some distant point. You simply need to remember that nothing stands between you and fulfillment. If you choose today to seize your destiny, you will quickly discover you hold the keys to your fate.

Peace & Harmony, Coach Cher

Posted in Intentional lifestyle

Loving Intentions . . .

How our loving intentions can transform our living space

Our homes are rarely perfect, and even if they meet our basic needs, we might still desire improvements in location, decor, or style. However, every home has the potential for beauty. By filling our homes with love, we can look beyond material factors, such as market value and design. 

Our conscious, loving intentions have the power to transform our living spaces, removing negative energy and replacing it with an ethereal beauty that is felt rather than seen. Our homes can become soulful and alive spiritual dwellings. Regardless of their outward appearance, they will radiate love, making everyone, including ourselves, feel instantly welcome.

Transforming a space into a beautiful reflection of your inner warmth is as simple as projecting love into it. With sincere intentions, you can infuse your home’s walls with your energy, emotional sensitivity, and generosity of spirit, making it a haven of affection, joy, laughter, and togetherness. 

You have the power to decide whether your personal spaces will be peaceful and quiet or lively and inspiring. Begin by cultivating self-awareness. This will help you view your home as an essential part of your existence, not just a place you return to at the end of the day. 

Consider your relationship with each element of your space, and remember that every room can serve a purpose in your life and the lives of your loved ones. Finally, lovingly thank each room for fulfilling your needs. As you become more mindful of how your home contributes to your well-being, you will find yourself increasingly wanting to love and be loved by it.

Appearance and other superficial qualities can be misleading. An aesthetically beautiful home may still feel unwelcoming. Conversely, a home that seems ordinary in every way can be as comforting and cozy as a beloved relative or friend. 

When you nurture and care for your home as if it were a loved one, it will absorb your tender intentions and project a love so profound that you will soon develop a deep affection for it.

Peace & Harmony, Coach Cher

We Design Space!

For more in-depth support beyond this article, explore my personalized coaching programs. Schedule a free consultation to discuss what’s preventing you from achieving organized living spaces. We’ll pinpoint your obstacles and create a customized plan to reach your goals.

I look forward to helping you transform your lifestyle.

Let’s Chat! Cheryl Camacho # 860-941-8630

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Posted in Motivational Mondays

Motivational Monday

10 Ways To Stay Motivated When Negativity IS All Around You

Negativity can often feel overwhelming, stifling dreams and eroding hope. While it’s easy to let such negativity permeate your daily life, remember that you have the power to choose your response, even if you can’t always control external circumstances. By actively cultivating a positive environment, you can foster greater motivation to pursue your aspirations and objectives.

1. Have an attitude of belief. You will get what you expect.

2. Take control over what you can, and stop worrying about what you can’t. Some things are within your control, while others are not.

3. Read and listen to positive information. If you fill your mind with uplifting and inspiring information, it will keep you motivated. 

4. Be with positive people at all times. Negative people and conversations will have you focused on all the wrong things and may take your focus off your goals.

5. Speak positive affirmations. Words have a creative strength. Regardless of what is going on around you, speak out loud what you want to happen.

6. Learn from your mistakes, instead of repeating them. We all make mistakes; the key is to take your ‘messes and turn them into messages’ and keep on moving. 

7. Make a plan. There is a popular quote: “If you fail to plan, you plan to fail.” When you take time to plan, you allow yourself to think and visualize through the entire process from beginning to end. 

8. Celebrate accomplishments, whether big or small. Always take time out to celebrate.

9. Build a support team. Having the right team in place to help you is crucial to your success.

10. Rehearse your victories. Oftentimes, we forget how far we’ve come and the goals we’ve already accomplished.

Peace & Harmony, Coach Cher

Posted in Intentional lifestyle

As Unique As Your Fingerprints . . .

Your archetypes, as unique as your fingerprints, hold the keys to your life’s purpose and creative gifts.

Have you ever pondered why specific individuals, locations, and experiences captivate you? 

Have you noticed recurring patterns, unexpected twists, and moments that carry a deeper significance? 

Both ancient Greek philosophy and Jungian psychology suggest these occurrences are not coincidental. They are shaped by archetypes—active guardians within your inner psyche that subtly influence your beliefs, decisions, motivations, and choices.

Archetypes are more than just personality traits; they are symbolic roles chosen by your soul before birth to facilitate growth, healing, and the realization of your highest potential. 

The archetypes residing within you are as distinct as your fingerprints, offering insights into your life’s purpose, your creative strengths, and the profound meaning behind your greatest challenges.

The remarkable aspect of working with archetypes is their ability to articulate the intangible. They help you understand your patterns, your passions, and your struggles. Crucially, they affirm that your life holds meaning—that you are not flawed or adrift. You are on a soul-driven journey rich with purpose and wisdom. 

When you start perceiving your life through the framework of archetypes, confusion gives way to clarity, and your path forward becomes not only apparent but also profoundly motivating.

Peace & Harmony, Coach Cher

Posted in Intentional lifestyle

Holding The Line

Title: Holding the Line: How We Save When Everything’s on the Line

It starts with a sigh at the grocery store, standing over a cart that’s a little lighter than usual. The cashier smiles kindly, but behind that smile is another mother doing her own math—calculating the price of dignity in a world that keeps raising the cost. You clip the coupons, stretch every dollar, and trade brand names for store labels, not because you want to—but because you must. Because your kids need milk. Your parents need their medication. And there’s not a luxury to be found, only survival.

The fridge is no longer just an appliance. It’s a battleground of love and sacrifice. Dinner isn’t just a meal—it’s a prayer you stretch with canned beans, rice, and frozen vegetables. You skip meals so your children won’t notice there’s less. You fill your pantry with wisdom from your grandmother, who taught you how to make soup out of bones and hope. She made it through the Great Depression, and now, with every bite, you remember her hands and her strength.

And now it’s not just your kids you’re holding up—your parents are slipping through the cracks too. The messages come in emails with cold words: “Medicaid eligibility review.” You sit with your mom, now frail and trembling, as you fill out forms that feel more like trials than help. You plead with bureaucracies while worrying whether you’ll have to choose between insulin and electricity.

SNAP benefits are being cut for families like yours. It feels like someone is tightening a belt around your soul. But you don’t crumble. You stretch meals, plant tomatoes in coffee cans, and teach your children to find joy in the little things: the smell of warm bread, the power of sharing a single apple.

You hold your head up at the food bank, because there is no shame in feeding your family. You trade recipes with other mothers and grandmothers in parking lots, exchange budgeting hacks, and swap winter coats at community centers. Because we are all in this together.

You cut out takeout, make your own cleaning supplies, repair instead of replace, and teach your children that being rich isn’t about money—it’s about heart, grit, and sticking together.

To every family fighting for their kids, their elders, and their dignity, know this:

~We will survive this.
We come from people who faced breadlines and dust bowls, who turned their last pennies into the foundation for something better. They didn’t give up, and neither will we.

~This moment will not break us.
We are the descendants of resilience. We are the children of those who made it through the darkness of the 1930s with strength stitched into every thread of their being.

~We will survive—because that’s what we do.
We endure. We fight. We rise.

And when the history books write about this era, they’ll say:
“They came together. They gave what they could. They made it through.”

Just like before.
Just like always.
Together.

Peace & Harmony, Coach Cher

Posted in Intentional lifestyle

Motivational Monday

Walk like you’re not waiting for money—walk like it’s chasing you. That’s the mindset we need now more than ever. The years ahead will demand boldness, not hesitation. We can’t afford to tiptoe through life waiting for permission, abundance, or rescue. We must embody the energy of someone already aligned with success, someone who knows their worth and acts like the world is trying to catch up to them. It’s about walking with purpose, making decisions from a place of belief, not fear—because when you shift your mindset from scarcity to certainty, money, opportunity, and progress begin to move toward you. The future belongs to those who act like it’s already theirs.

Peace & Harmony, Coach Cher ♥

Posted in Home Design

“Some of us think holding on makes us strong; but sometimes it is letting go.”

By creating space for profound healing and renewal, we clear away what no longer serves us.

Life can throw unexpected events at us that leave a lasting impression, such as the death of a loved one, a sudden epiphany, or an instant that changes everything. We may find ourselves reflecting on these events for years to come.

These defining moments can ground us, reminding us of our reality and what is truly important. Although we may try to forget these memories as we move forward, they can still weigh heavily upon us.

Repressed emotions don’t disappear; they can manifest unexpectedly as mental exhaustion, emotional outbursts, or even a disorganized living space.

Creating space, both mentally and physically, is a crucial step toward achieving profound healing and renewal. This process allows us to delve deep within ourselves and confront the aspects of our lives that no longer contribute positively to our well-being. By actively identifying and releasing these burdens, we create room for growth, transformation, and the cultivation of a more authentic and fulfilling existence.

The act of letting go can be challenging, as we often hold onto things, both tangible and intangible, out of familiarity, fear, or a false sense of security. However, what we fail to acknowledge is that what we bury within ourselves doesn’t simply disappear; it often resurfaces in unexpected and potentially harmful ways. Unexpressed emotions, unresolved traumas, and limiting beliefs can manifest as physical ailments, emotional distress, and self-destructive behaviors.

By creating space, we allow ourselves to confront these hidden aspects of ourselves with compassion and understanding. This process may involve therapy, journaling, meditation, or other forms of self-reflection. It may also involve decluttering our physical spaces, letting go of toxic relationships, or changing unhealthy habits.

The goal is not to erase our past or to deny our experiences, but rather to integrate them into a more holistic understanding of ourselves. By acknowledging and releasing what no longer serves us, we create space for new experiences, new relationships, and new possibilities. We open ourselves up to the flow of life and allow ourselves to be guided by our intuition and our inner wisdom.

TRY THIS!

“THE STORY, THE LESSON, THE LETTING GO” Activity

Purpose:
To help clients honor the emotional connection to an item without needing to keep the physical object.


📝 What You’ll Need:

  • A journal or printed worksheet
  • A pen or marker
  • A camera or phone (optional)

🌟 Step-by-Step Instructions:

1. Choose One Sentimental Item
Pick one item that feels meaningful but may no longer fit your life or space.

2. Write the Story
Ask: “What memory or emotion is tied to this item?”
Have them write a few sentences (or talk it out if journaling isn’t their thing).

Example:
“This was my grandmother’s teacup. She used to pour me mint tea in this cup when I was a kid, and we’d sit and talk.”

3. Find the Lesson or Legacy
Ask: “What has this item taught you or reminded you about yourself or your life?”

Example:
“It reminds me how important quiet moments and connection are. I want more of that in my current life.”

4. The Letting Go
Options:

  • Take a photo of the item to keep the memory.
  • Create a small memory box or digital album with the photo and story.
  • Gently release the item with intention.

Say out loud (or write):
“Thank you for the memory. I carry your story with me, not your shape.”


✅ Why This Works:

  • It respects the emotion, rather than denying it.
  • It shifts focus from the object to the experience.
  • It gently empowers decision-making by turning guilt into gratitude.

Peace & Harmony, Cheryl